Adam Cam

How to hurt a narcissist

If you met them for the first time today, knowing everything you know now… would you still choose them?

Try it… ask him.

Women are reciprocators, not initiators.

Dealing with a narcissist will make you question your reality. They’ll lie, deflect, twist, guilt-trip, and flip the blame so well that you end up apologizing for being hurt. Truth is, you can’t win an argument with someone who isn’t interested in truth — only control. You won’t get closure from someone who benefits from your confusion. And you sure as hell won’t find peace by trying to fix them. So don’t waste your energy trying to explain yourself better. Don’t fall into the trap of proving your pain.
Don’t wait for an apology that’s never coming. The best way to deal with a narcissist? Boundaries. Silence. Distance. Clarity. The moment you stop engaging is the moment you take your power back.

More couples need to understand this

Don’t get into a relationship with anyone until you can honestly answer these two questions… Am I actually healed… or just hoping someone else will stop the bleeding? Do I really want this person… or do I just want someone to save me from loneliness?

This will solve most of your problems.

If they’re not doing this for you… you’re not a priority.

Mindset

What do men really want in a woman?

Am I wrong?

If they lying about little shit… they lying about plenty shit.

Do any of these reasons resonate with you?

Do you have a friend like this?

Believe what they show you, not just what they tell you… because actions and patterns don’t lie.

I’m not here to impress you.
I’m here to observe you. I’m not trying to win you over.
I’m seeing if who you are actually complements who I am. I’m not dating to be chosen.
I’m dating to see if I want to choose you.

There is no healthy way to be in a “situationship”

Relationships in 2025

Narcissists don’t just look for prey. Sometimes they hunt trophies.